Chances are if you’re here, you’re looking to improve an area in your life.

The fact that you’re here already tells me a great deal about you.

It tells me you’re struggling. Struggling to have better health, more money, greater confidence, improved relationships or just overall happiness.

And let me tell you, you don’t need a reason to have all these things.  To simply want them tells me that you deserve them.

My name is Tar’Lese Trainer. And I’ve been where you are now. I figured out how to live the kind of life most people dreamed of, because I didn’t give up.

And I had plenty of reasons to throw in the towel:

• I’ve been homeless
• I’ve had to voluntarily repossess my car
• I’ve been laid off (fired) from my job
• My birth father died of a heart attack
• I once sold my own bed for money
• My birth mother committed suicide
• Incurable cancer doesn’t just run in my family – it gallops
• I’ve been in and out of the hospital – sometimes for months at a time
• I’ve been near-death from a car accident that forced me into rehab for months
• I’ve been evicted
• I’ve been in an abusive relationship

I don’t say these things as a sort of checklist on how hard my life is compared to yours. It’s not a competition. I’m telling you these things because any one of them would be a valid and understandable excuse not to reach for the things I wanted.

Comfort – The Well-Trodden Path of the Human Brain

Comfort is a well-trodden path in the human brain. People will go to unimaginable, and sometimes unrealistic odds to stay within their “comfort zone”, even if that means suffering at the hands of an abuser or living under a bridge. It’s something we feel we deserve or something that we feel we can’t escape.

I’m not going to lie to you. Change is hard. It’s so easy to lapse back into being a victim. I didn’t just hit rock bottom, I crashed through it and started to dig.

But I bounced back. I overcame. I clawed my way up and you can too.

And I’d like to show you how.

For some people, all they need is a little gentle guidance and a nudge on the right track. For other people, like myself, they needed to be pulled, kicking and screaming from their dirty little hovel.

If that latter description sounds like you – that’s okay.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Get Comfortable Outside Your Comfort Zone

And on this website, I’m going to say some things that might push you out of your comfort zone. You may feel angry. Confused. Frustrated.

That’s good. It means we’re making progress.

But it’s time to unclench your ironclad grip on the past. No matter what excuses are pulling you under – your financial situation is dire, your relationship is on the rocks, your boss is a jerk (to put it mildly), you can beat this and look back on this moment with pride and say:

So how do I start turning things around Tar’Lese?

It starts with realizing that the best time to change your life is NOW and then understanding that there are 3 main areas of your life that determine whether you live an extraordinary life or an ordinary one and those are:

1.BODY – 2.BRAINS – 3.BANK ACCOUNT

Let’s take them one by one and talk about improving these key areas of YOUR life!

Everyone usually focuses on the money, but what good is all the money in the world if you’re tired and sluggish and don’t have any energy or hate looking in the mirror in the morning? What if the very FACT that you weren’t taking care of your body was responsible for you lacking in other areas of life too, like relationships or finances? If this area slips, ALL areas slip.

Trust me, it’s not like when I was overweight and drinking all the time that I had the best finances in the world or the best relationships. In fact, it was quite the opposite: I was BROKE and I was in ABUSIVE relationships. Because I wasn’t taking care of ME first. When I started taking care of my body, my finances changed and I found my king  of a husband who treats me like a queen and because we know how important this area is, we take time EVERY SINGLE WEEK to prep our meals, exercise and checking in to make sure we’re staying accountable on living healthy lifestyles.

Don’t know how to get started in this area or super overwhelmed by figuring out your own meal plans and exercise programs? No problem, just CLICK HERE and you can consult with me one on one to get a game plan for designing the body you’ve always wanted without stress, pain or guilt.

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Make the commitment to yourself today to say “I refuse to let this negativity and adversity in my life.”  Unlike waves that gnash against rocks and wear them down over time, you’ll continue to stand tall – a beacon of hope, truth and determination. And I’ll be there by your side every step of the way.

I’m ready to help you light that fire.
Are YOU ready?

If you are, CLICK HERE to get started